Thursday, June 20, 2013
HOUSE KEEPER WAHALA
Ladies this is my current headache and I am sure a lot of you out there has had one experience or the other. Please share your sad or success story. I am eager to hear who has had this problem shelved and lived successfully with a house keeper for years. Tell us how you did it or even why you did!
I share mine shortly, want to hear from you all first...
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lol...still waiting
ReplyDeleteMine is the Story of Ima... the new help that scared the living daylight out of me. Got her on a Saturday, ran the usual house help test and went home with her.
ReplyDeleteFrom the moment she entered my house she kept a big frown on her face, my son was scared of her.
I got one sometime in March and offcause did all the HM tests and they were all good. A month later I walked into the kitchen I found her shedding tears (I do not mean cries o!!!) I asked her why she was shedding tears her only response " Mi fe lo le" meaning "I want to go home" I consoled and pampered her and she brighten up. A week later the same thing happened with more tears and same reason "Mi fe lo le" at this point I was irritated but people said maybe she is just missing home. Days and weeks went by we were co-habiting well. On this fateful weekend she decided not to eat all day but just shedding tears. Finally I have had enough so I callled the BABA that brought her to come pick her. My conclusion was that she was lazy and didn't want to work, more importantly God didn't want her in my house. Glad I let her go because I am currently enjoying the one I have for now.
ReplyDeleteP.S: Why do they eat sooooo much?
Thanks for sharing! Do you have another one now? How did you manager?
DeleteYes, I have another one. So far so good,doing her work well and no wahala.
DeleteThe food grubbing is an animal instinct. Something inside calling for reserves! But a few have help that eat sparingly.
ReplyDeleteall I can say is I am fed up.
ReplyDeleteStill on Ima! In church service, "Let us pray!", I lift up my head and baby to stand and in split seconds Ima was no where to be found. Kept looking at the door intermittently (God forgive me but I was distracted). Then she strolls in when the announcements started. I asked her where she'd been and she said she went outside to make a call.
ReplyDeleteThat was my final cue, frowning scary Ima has to go oh! Zero reverence for God means "something is chasing you". We got home and I had a my plan set out to make sure she leaves the next day.